I am really pissed off, you meticulously plan a get-together
with your friends after almost a year, and you have been desperately waiting
for this day and guess what the questions asked and discussions surrounding a single
question.
When are you getting married?
If I am not married I
am not on wrong side, Am I a terrorist? Or Am I a serial killer or Am I a Rapist? If not why the hell everyone is worried about it.
We used to blame aunty ji’s for keep sticking to this single
omnipresent question of their existence, but are we youngsters really part of
change, I am sorry to answer in ‘NO’.
We can’t expect greater changers in the part of old
generation which is strictly stereotypical ,they may have been asked the same
question in their young age and like rest they just choose to repeat themselves
even if their own marriage is a perfect example of sucked-up relationships they
would still expect others to be part of it.
I don’t know, why? I
really don’t have exact answer to this, so you may also apply your brain along
with me around some possibilities, May be because they still believe in magic,
since happy family is still not a myth, it’s called being hopeful, or they want
to extract pure entertainment from your marriage ceremony, or just time pass
since they have nothing better to do, whatever may be the reason, anyhow I am
not against marriage, I am against this stupid question to be repeatedly asked
as if this is the only sole propose of
our life.
For those who used to ask this with everyone with a smile
must know that this is the most unintelligent question ever asked, if I will
have to marry I will and you shall be invited to make some stupid arrangements
for creating temporary fake impressions among visitors and thereby later you
can rock the floor on an item song with absolutely absurd or no lyrics.
I just wonder why so many people with so much free of cost
suggestions were not available when I really needed them, Like where you have
been when I passed matriculation and needed career counseling and I was
confused what to read which subjects to opt and what should be perfect career
for me, and where you have been when I was depressed because of failure in a competitive
exams and was seeking psychological guidance, or where you have been when I ate
alone in a foreign land and desperately looked for at least a friendlier chat,
where you have been? So please don’t come to me with a tag of well wisher and
never required inquiry, sadi kab karoge?
And then few people came with attaching one more stupid
suggestion along with this one, “This is right time for you”, stop this bullshit, and
get rid of your prejudice and stereotypical thoughts, if you have lost your ability to expect better
things in life then it’s your problem not mine. Please don’t build wall for me.
So friends, why can’t we include better questions in our discussions?
They not necessarily need to be national level problems but few basic questions
which have never been raised in discussion can actually change the world, you
will know it only when you will start asking them.
Can’t we start our conversation with a simple yet never
asked question, Are you happy? If yes, great and if not what we could do for
bringing more happiness in yours and others
life, how can we make our country/ world a better place to live, how can
we be more creative and help others in their creative endeavors, and then we
could also jump into diverse issues seldom being discussed, Like how to grow
more trees and save the planet from global warming, how to save existing forests
, how to save water, how to start saving water from house level, how to have
healthy eating habits, how to be part of bringing social equality, how to stop
humiliation, how to stop rape/killing, how not to be part of corruption and how
to stop it, how to be more kind/sympathetic/humble and honest, how to be active
part of pollution control, how to control population, how to be part of poverty eradication, how to
make a more tolerant/accepting and open society, how to eradicate superstition,
how to save humanity from unnecessary rat race, growing restlessness and never
ending materialistic pursuits, and most
important how to held a more positive and enthusiastic march towards a
developed world, a world where everyone is happy, prosperous, healthy and at
peace with others and with their own soul.
(My purpose is not to include all questions even if I wish
to I can’t, I just want you guys to be more open, thoughtful and creative in
asking questions, because remember your questions
can change the destiny of the coming world)
